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Why do feel we have to market salvation as free? What are we really appealing to in a man?

Fine, but could you shorten the oracles up a bit for us? Spread 'em out over several posts.
People invent evil about God. Speak hard things about Him. Speak great swelling words of vanity.

How important to be corrected by Gods words, to only speak in holy conversation ( Gods words) instead of hearing your own words and vanity. ( as testified and warned by God)



Jude 1:14 And Enoch also, the seventh from Adam, prophesied of these, saying, Behold, the Lord cometh with ten thousands of his saints,
15 To execute judgment upon all, and to convince all that are ungodly among them of all their ungodly deeds which they have ungodly committed, and of all their hard speeches which ungodly sinners have spoken against him.
16 These are murmurers, complainers, walking after their own lusts; and their mouth speaketh great swelling words, having men's persons in admiration because of advantage.
17 But, beloved, remember ye the words which were spoken before of the apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ;
18 How that they told you there should be mockers in the last time, who should walk after their own ungodly lusts.
19 These be they who separate themselves, sensual, having not the Spirit.

2 Peter 3:2 That ye may be mindful of the words which were spoken before by the holy prophets, and of the commandment of us the apostles of the Lord and Saviour:
3 Knowing this first, that there shall come in the last days scoffers, walking after their own lusts,

2 Peter 3:10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up.
11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness,
12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat?
 
What in your theology costs YOU something? Anything?
It costs a lot, in fact, everything if necessary, to live by faith according to the fruit of the Spirit and cling to faith and belief in God's forgiveness. And so it is in that way that the salvation we hope and long for at the appearing of Jesus Christ costs a lot.

What doesn't cost anything is being declared righteous. Justification is a free gift.

Romans 3:23-24
23for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24and are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.

Romans 5:17
17For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive an abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ!


And it is from this free gift of righteousness that we then pay the sometimes heavy cost of discipleship and enduring to the end in faith. Some pay the ultimate price of martyrdom for holding fast to the word of the gospel. Some pay a lesser price of ruined relationships and lost opportunities (Meh). But none of those prices paid by the believer buy God's declaration of righteousness and right standing with him. That is an entirely free gift received when one believes in God's promise of forgiveness and redemption through Jesus Christ. It can not be bought with good works. It can only be received as a free gift by faith in God's forgiveness and the promise of life to come. Amen, amen, and amen.
 
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What do YOU tell those who struggle forgiving others??

I tell them that not forgiving others is more hurtful to them than the ones they wont forgive. Because that unforgiveness becomes a seed of bitterness in ones heart and over time becomes a root of bitterness which will affect all areas of your life.

I also tell them that forgiveness of others is a process which takes time. Supposing that the person has done you a great evil and you simply can not forgive them in your heart...the first time, Pray and say, Lord I can not seem to be able to forgive this person, but out of my Love for you and because I want to be obedient to your will, I make it an act of my will to forgive (enter scumbag name here) for the wrongs that they have done to me, and I ask you to remove this bitterness in my heart so that I may feel peace in my soul and have a pure heart...
Amen and Amen.

This worked for me. Someone...did do a great evil to me, and when I learned that holding bitterness in your heart by choice damages your heart and contaminates it, well, I figured if I make it an act of my will in prayer and giving it to Jesus would help even if I didn't feel the forgiveness yet. So I prayed a similar prayer everyday and maybe a half dozen times before I began to feel peace in my heart towards that person, and shortly thereafter, forgiveness.

It doesn't mean trust them again, but only a very short sighted person would want to hold onto bitterness so let it go and pray it through. It worked for me!
 
It costs a lot, in fact, everything if necessary, to live by faith according to the fruit of the Spirit and cling to faith and belief in God's forgiveness. And so it is in that way that the salvation we hope and long for at the appearing of Jesus Christ costs a lot.

What doesn't cost anything is being declared righteous. Justification is a free gift.

Romans 3:23-24
23for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24and are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.

Romans 5:17
17For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive an abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ!


And it is from this free gift of righteousness that we then pay the sometimes heavy cost of discipleship and enduring to the end in faith. Some pay the ultimate price of martyrdom for holding fast to the word of the gospel. Some pay a lesser price of ruined relationships and lost opportunities (Meh). But none of those prices paid by the believer buy God's declaration of righteousness and right standing with him. That is an entirely free gift received when one believes in God's promise of forgiveness and redemption through Jesus Christ. It can not be bought with good works. It can only be received as a free gift by faith in God's forgiveness and the promise of life to come. Amen, amen, and amen.
What price have you paid in particular? Your post is fairly general. Can you be specific what you have given up?
 
People invent evil about God. Speak hard things about Him. Speak great swelling words of vanity.

How important to be corrected by Gods words, to only speak in holy conversation ( Gods words) instead of hearing your own words and vanity. ( as testified and warned by God)
It doesn’t seem that your posts always qualify as holy conversation. They are full of your words, way too long. Or dumping passages as Gish. We just skip ‘em as they often don’t apply.

Try real conversation with a few verses as they apply and discuss them.
 
Genesis 22:1 And it came to pass after these things, that God did tempt Abraham, and said unto him, Abraham: and he said, Behold, here I am.
Now it came to pass after these things that aGod tested Abraham, and said to him, “Abraham!”

And he said, “Here I am.”

Testing is NOT tempting. They aren’t even close.

When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone;

The Enemy accuses God of tempting man to do evil.
Hebrews 11:17 By faith Abraham, when he was tried, offered up Isaac: and he that had received the promises offered up his only begotten son,
Again God cannot tempt a man to
do evil. You misrepresent Him telling untruths about Him. This you recently disparaged others for doing so.

“People invent evil about God. Speak hard things about Him. Speak great swelling words of vanity.” You did what you accuse others of doing.
 
Read your quotes man ?

To be in Christ Jesus, is redemption.

Redemption from what?

Redemption from what? From the power and penalty of our sin.

John 3:16-18 (NASB)
16 "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
17 "For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him.
18 "He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.

John 3:36 (NASB)
36 "He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son will not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him."

Romans 6:5-7 (NASB)
5 For if we have become united with Him in the likeness of His death, certainly we shall also be in the likeness of His resurrection,
6 knowing this, that our old self was crucified with Him, in order that our body of sin might be done away with, so that we would no longer be slaves to sin;
7 for he who has died is freed from sin.


Firstly Romans 3 mentions about this before 1 Corinthians 1. We are reminded how the righteousness of God ( Jesus Christ becomes to us righteousness and redemption 1 Corinthians 1.) is not manifested, which was FIRST WITNESSED BVY THE LAW AND THE PROPHETS.



Romans 3:21 But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested, being witnessed by the law and the prophets;
22 Even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference:
23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
24 Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:
25 Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God;


Galatians 4 continues, shows how all in the world were under the law ( and the prophets) until Christ redeems all from the law.

Hebrews 9, finishes about what we are redeemed from, recapping how the blood of the first covenant had not redeemed us, but that Christ redeems us from the transgressions that were under the first covenant...

Yes. And? You seem to be offering all this in opposition to what I've written but I don't see where there is a disjunction between what I wrote and what you've written here.

That is the foundation of Jesus Christ, joined to the foundation of the prophets and apostles, joined by Christ to those who were under the law, and Christ as testified, is the chief corner stone.

There is only ONE foundation for the Christian person: Jesus Christ. He does not share his role as our Foundation with anyone else - certainly not with mere human beings. The apostles and prophets point to Christ and serve him, but they are not equal with Christ, standing with him as though they were part of the Godhead. He was before any prophet or apostle being their eternal Creator, God and King. As the Chief Cornerstone, Jesus is the centerpiece, the linch-pin, the Source of Life for the Christian. No other being outside of the Godhead is on par with him in these respects. I don't understand, therefore, why you are making so much of Abraham and the apostles and prophets. They are mere men, so far from the glory, power and wisdom of Christ it is impossible to explain the enormity of the distance.

1 Corinthians 3:11 (NASB)
11 For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.


Ephesians 1:20-23 (NASB)
20 which He brought about in Christ, when He raised Him from the dead and seated Him at His right hand in the heavenly places,
21 far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and every name that is named, not only in this age but also in the one to come.
22 And He put all things in subjection under His feet, and gave Him as head over all things to the church,
23 which is His body, the fullness of Him who fills all in all.

Ephesians 2:19-22 (NASB)
19 So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints, and are of God's household,
20 having been built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus Himself being the corner stone,
21 in whom the whole building, being fitted together, is growing into a holy temple in the Lord,
22 in whom you also are being built together into a dwelling of God in the Spirit.


Since Jesus is the only foundation that can be laid spiritually, the only "ground" upon which a person may build in their service to God, in what way are the apostles and prophets a foundation? They are mere "building blocks" existing and held in place by the the "stone the builders rejected." Paul is clear that what foundation they constitute is resting on the corner stone of Christ without which the foundation would dissolve. In him, as Paul wrote, the whole building of the "household of faith" is "fitted together" and growing into a holy temple in the Lord. Jesus, then, is The Key, not the apostles or prophets, in whom the entire Church finds its life and foundation.
 
You give a verse that mentions we are saved by a free gift and not works of righteousness, we have done.

We are saved by a Holy calling, which is Jesus Christ bringing life and immortality to light through the Gospel.

Apostle Paul shows he is appointed a preacher, apostle and teacher of the Gentiles, as he believed and was persuaded Christ keeps that which Paul committed to Christ.

Acts describes that Paul was a chosen vessel to best the Lords name, and Paul immediately asks the Lord, what the Lord will have him to do.

Paul also shares with us that necessity is laid on Paul to preach this same Gospel of Christ. ( of suffering the loss of all things to win Christ.) which is not our own righteousness, but the faith of Jesus Christ, to know Him, the power of His resurrection, the fellowship of His sufferings, to attain to the resurrection of the dead...

Yes. And? What's your point? And why haven't you addressed the verses I cited about our salvation being entirely apart from works which you seemed to deny.

Obedience is faith, because Abraham believed God, all nations are blessed in Abraham ( to Christ)

Yes. And so? Faith in Christ and in the promises of God is indeed an act of obedience. But faith, believing a thing is so, is not a physical act one performs, but a state of mind, an attitude toward certain facts, a willingness of heart to accept something as true. In the case of a converted person, their faith simply receives from God His redemption, justification and sanctification. There is no work to be done; no acts of righteousness to perform; only accepting and receiving His undeserved gift. And this continues to be the dynamic under which the born-again person walks daily with God, by faith, receiving from Him both the desire and ability to do His will. (Philippians 2:13; 2 Corinthians 3:18; Ephesians 3:16, etc.)

If Abraham had not believed, would God's plan of redemption of humanity have failed? Did His plan rely entirely on Abraham? I think not. No man is necessary to what God intends to do. God needs no human in order to accomplish His ends. And so, what is your preoccupation with Abraham about? If it had not been Abraham, it would have been someone else. The important One is Christ, the God-Man, not Abraham.

Of the fathers ( Abraham, Isaac, Jacob) Christ came, concerning the flesh. Christ is over all, and came of the same fathers, concerning the flesh.

Because it was told to those same fathers ( in the flesh) that in Isaac shall his seed be called. The children of the promise are counted for the seed.

The promise was that God will come, and Sarah shall have a son, and Rebecca also conceived by Isaac( to have Jacob.) and before Jacob or Esau had been born to do good or evil, the purpose of God stood, of election, that Esau is rejected and Jacob is through promise.

Yes. And so? None of this does anything to adjust or confound the things I've written in this thread... I can't tell if you're disagreeing with me or just tangentially riffing off my posts.

Essential testimony, as this explains why those same children of the flesh do not believe in being the children of the promise made first to Abraaham. ( how else is is testified Abraham is the father of us all?)

The one not born by promise was not a child of the free ( Jerusalem which is above, which is the mother of us all) because Esau was born after the flesh.

Now we, as Isaac was, are children of the free. ( receiving the promise of God which was made to ABRAHAM.)

I have no idea what you're going on about here. God is the Father of all born-again believers, who, through Christ, are adopted by Him into His kingdom and family (Romans 8:14-17). Abraham is not my "father" in the sense in which God is.

I believe in Christ, not in the promise made to Abraham. Jesus is my Savior, not an ancient Jewish patriarch. If I am a "descendant of Abraham" it is in the sense in which I, too, by faith, have trusted in the promise of God. That's pretty much the sum-total of my connection to Abraham.

Isaac is symbolic of the born-again believer in contrast to Hagar's child, Ishmael, who was not the "child of promise," as Isaac was, but was a failed attempt to fulfill the promise of God by human means, which is what people do who attempt to walk with God by way of law-keeping. Hagar was a bondswoman, a slave to Abraham, giving birth to Ishmael under a condition of bondage. In contrast, Isaac was born of Sara, the wife, not slave, of Abraham, and so was born free. The Christian believer is spiritually "born free." Free from what? From the bondage and condemnation of the Law of God (but not its righteousness - Romans 8:1-4).
 
A born again believer cant reject the scriptures shown to them, and they can only acknowledge them.

Well, you appear to be an exception to your own assertion, here...

Romans 4 shows Abraham is a father of circumcision to those of the circumcision, and to those who also walk in the steps of that faith of our father Abraham.Abraham, in this faith, is the father of us all.

Then they which are of faith, are blessed with faithful Abraham.

Abraham is an OT parallel and precursor to the NT believer, both of whom have trusted in the promises of God, Abraham receiving the fulfillment of the promise of a son in Isaac and the post-Calvary person receiving the promise of salvation in The Son, Jesus Christ. In respect to his exercise of faith in the promise of God, and the result that Abraham became a "father of many nations," the Christian could say that Abraham is their "father." But this is essentially an acknowledgement of history, having no direct, immediate bearing on the relationship of the born-again believer to their Heavenly Father through Jesus.

Born again believers in Jesus Christ, ( Saints) are spiritual.

Carnal are not in the spirit. ( not Saints)

Carnal is natural man. ( no understanding in the Spirit.)

Yes. And? As I've pointed out to you before, the apostle Paul disagrees with you. The believers at Corinth were both carnal and "babes in Christ."

1 Corinthians 3:1-2 (NASB)
1 And I, brethren, could not speak to you as to spiritual men, but as to men of flesh, as to infants IN CHRIST.
2 I gave you milk to drink, not solid food; for you were not yet able to receive it. Indeed, even now you are not yet able,


Yes, carnality is of the "natural man," but it is simply false to assert that carnality cannot abide in a born-again person. Scripture and the daily experience of every honest believer reveals this is so.

Ephesians 5:3 But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints;
4 Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.
5 For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.

Why in the world would Paul write this to people - saints of God - who were incapable of doing as he describes here? The only reason Paul would write the above to the believers at Ephesus was because they were doing the very things he prohibits. But this would mean, of course, that the saints in Ephesus were not sinlessly perfect and incapable of sin.

They who do, the works of the flesh, shall not inherit the Kingdom of God.

They who do so as a common, comfortable feature of everyday living, yes. But the carnal "babe in Christ," who is stumbling and struggling as they learn to walk with God, is not proving they are lost but that they are in the process of growth and change that the Bible describes of all believers. I've pointed out already in earlier posts where Scripture speaks of this process.

If you see that as Saints can and do, sinning, then you admit you are in the flesh, not in the Spirit.

See? You have simply ignored all the scriptural grounds I have offered to you showing this is wrong. You throw up other passages that seem to make your case for you while offering no reconciliation of the verses/passages I've given to you with the ones you've cited. Why? I think it's because you don't know how to reconcile them while holding to your unbiblical sinless perfection stuff. Essentially, you hold God's word in contradiction to itself.

Are you claiming that Apostle Paul is carnal ?

That would b your confusion, to think that Apostle Paul is teaching against people being hard to hear Gods word, as they are carnal, and not Spiritual, to be able to hear God as clearly Paul hears.

Paul of course can do the things of God, as God strengthens us, does he not strengthen you Tenchi , to even understand or acknowledge anything right about the Lord ?

Again, why did Paul write what he did to the Gentile churches if they were all filled with sinlessly-perfect people? Paul is crystal clear in each of his letters that he is writing to born-again, fellow children of God. Why, then, does he so often tell them to avoid sin? They are incapable of sin, are they not? Would you warn a man standing out in a field in the middle of the prairies to watch out for sharks in the water? Why would you? He's standing in a field, not the ocean. So, too, then, why write to people to avoid sin who are standing in perfect sinlessness? Doing so would make no more sense than in the first instance of the man in the field. This isn't that hard to understand, gordon777...

That is born again, to be cleansed from all sin, why do you think born again is cleansed, only to be filthy again ?

I don't think a person is born-again only so that they might become filthy once more. This is a Strawman version of what I've written.

We are made partakers of Christ, if we old fast.

How do you read that as saying Saints are partakers of Christ, by not holding fast, being carnal, non understanding in the Spirit ( carnal) and sinning ?

What does it mean to be a partaker of Christ? It means the Christian will partake in his suffering, in his glory in the future heavenly Jerusalem, in his purposes in the World, saving the lost from hell, in his righteousness, power and peace, and so on. But, as I pointed out to you before, I can possess Christ and not benefit from all that he would impart to my life through the Spirit. By way of analogy, if I own a lawnmower but choose to trim my lawn with a pair of scissors, do I no longer own the lawnmower? No, I only cease to benefit from its power to cut my grass with much greater speed, evenness, and efficiency. So, too, with Christ. I can be one of his, but not benefiting from - or partaking of - him but snipping at the "grass" of my life with the "scissors" of self-effort and sinful compromise.
 
I have heard about the free gift of salvation for as long as I can remember. "Salvation is free" meaning you don't have to do anything at all that is difficult or costly or bothersome. If we think about the teaching of Jesus and the apostles, is that the main message we get? Did they teach that one just needs to pray a prayer, "accept Jesus" as though he were unacceptable and desires to be liked, and that is it? Is that really what we even think in the moments after one is convinced to do this?

Think about it. Your standard alter call and some come forward to "accept Jesus" (totally unbiblical but in some cases it is sufficient if the heart is already aware of sin and repentant) and in the minutes following this simple sentence or two, the "new believer" is told that now that they "received this free gift" there are indeed, some strings. They now need to grow in their faith meaning attend church. All of those churches have requirements. Some insist on weekly attendance. Some insist on tithing. Some insist in serving the group in some way. All insist on minimum standards of morality although unless you tell another of your alternative to Jesus' teaching choices, no one is likely to discern a problem. Some, unfortunately today, insist that the new believer must read the Bible ( I say few because this is really not an option and all should insist on this.)

So we call if free but like today's marketing tactics, once you signed up for the "free" whatever, the requirements are added later. So you hook them in and once in, you tell them it is not free after all.

And my second question, are we really appealing to something in a man we want to stir up, getting something for nothing? Is this challenging a man to be better than they know they are now or is this comforting them at the level they are at requiring nothing of them? It is a known phenomenon that when a man has to pay for something, they value it more. Pay a price for your lessons and you are not likely to miss them. Get them for free and you are likely to let it slide. People treat their old junker car differently than a brand new Tesla. Where your treasure is, there is your heart. Offer salvation free and who has their heart in a freebie?

What if we told them it will cost them everything but it is the only life worth living?
Salvation is a free gift from God because Christ's chosen apostle Paul said so.

"For by grace are you saved through faith; and not that of yourselves: IT IS THE GIFT OF GOD" Ephesians 2:8.

Many have trouble receiving things that are free because of pride. They want to earn everything that they get. A free gift cannot be earned or deserved, otherwise it would not be a free gift. A free gift can only be received.

We come to Christ as spiritually bankrupt, we have nothing to offer him. We come to receive of him. He hears our cry and freely gives us his salvation and eternal life, it cost us nothing, but it cost him everything.
 
Christianity ruined my marriage. And that's all I'm going to say about that.
I’m very sorry to hear that. However, that’s not a price that we can say verify since a marriage involves two people deciding based not usually on faith but behaviour. She would have to say you were great but she didn’t want a christian. Maybe there were other reasons she left. But I can understand that you’re reluctant to give details. Anything that is a clear choice where your behaviour wasn’t a question?
 
Salvation is a free gift from God because Christ's chosen apostle Paul said so.

"For by grace are you saved through faith; and not that of yourselves: IT IS THE GIFT OF GOD" Ephesians 2:8.
Where does it say “free?” A baby is a gift of God but costs parent a bundle after the birth. Still the baby was a gift.
Many have trouble receiving things that are free because of pride.
Nonsense. Many see the price of following Jesus as He said they should. Some would end up dead if they following Him and they knew it. That’s not free.
They want to earn everything that they get.
Nonsense. You never heard of Christmas? Birthdays?
A free gift cannot be earned or deserved, otherwise it would not be a free gift. A free gift can only be received.
It can also be lost.
We come to Christ as spiritually bankrupt, we have nothing to offer him.
Again nonsense. He wants our lives.
We come to receive of him. He hears our cry and freely gives us his salvation and eternal life, it cost us nothing, but it cost him everything.
No, Jesus said it will cost us everything.
 
I’m very sorry to hear that. However, that’s not a price that we can say verify since a marriage involves two people deciding based not usually on faith but behaviour. She would have to say you were great but she didn’t want a christian. Maybe there were other reasons she left. But I can understand that you’re reluctant to give details. Anything that is a clear choice where your behaviour wasn’t a question?
She has not left.

I am a Christian. She, by her own admission is not. That has produced a lot of friction between us. But I can not compromise my Christian beliefs to try to make us more compatible. And so I have to give up the joys of marriage in order to continue to have faith and endure to the end. It has been a very costly sacrifice to make. But that cost in no way pays for the salvation kept in heaven for me and which I will enter into at the end of the age.
 
She has not left.

I am a Christian. She, by her own admission is not. That has produced a lot of friction between us. But I can not compromise my Christian beliefs to try to make us more compatible. And so I have to give up the joys of marriage in order to continue to have faith and endure to the end. It has been a very costly sacrifice to make. But that cost in no way pays for the salvation kept in heaven for me and which I will enter into at the end of the age.
I find that difficult to believe. A christian husband who loves his wife more than himself ought to be the most desirable of husbands. He ought to be caring for her more than himself. That would be one unusual husband.
 
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Those who prefer to tell themselves God just gives to them and its all free, it’s probably best to move on. You receive freebies and that’s all that matters to you.

But maybe there are those who love God enough to want to give. They aren’t satisfied continually hearing how all they get is free and there’s nothing more but receiving and accepting. I wanted to offer the teaching of Jesus that calls for them to give. It’s extremely satisfactory to give to God that which He greatly values, to think of Him for a change instead of you. To please Him primarily instead of you, to focus on giving instead of getting.

It’s more blessed to give than receive, especially when giving to God.
 
I find that difficult to believe. A christian husband who loves his wife more than himself ought to be the most desirable of husbands. He ought to be caring for her more than himself. That would be one unusual husband.
Well then, I guess I need to start getting drunk, smoking weed, and sexting other women to be that desirable husband.

No thanks. I'm sticking with Christ on this one.
 
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