It is good to both agree and to disagree. It is a blessing to disagree with civility.
Absolutely.
Sometimes, God's Irresistible Draw (
sorry, not sorry - this is a Calvinism section and I couldn't resist ) looks like this ...
- [Acts of the Apostles 16:14 NLT] One of them was Lydia from Thyatira, a merchant of expensive purple cloth, who worshiped God. As she listened to us, the Lord opened her heart, and she accepted what Paul was saying.
Lydia worshipped God before He opened her heart.
I believe this had to do with accepting Paul's words and teachings.
Yes, God opened her heart...God does everything to speak to us.
If we have a soft heart, He makes it softer (if we have a hard heart, He may make it harder and leave us to ourselves).
and sometimes it looks like this ...
- [Acts of the Apostles 2:37 NLT] Peter's words pierced their hearts, and they said to him and to the other apostles, "Brothers, what should we do?"
and sometimes it looks like this ...
- [Acts of the Apostles 9:3-4 NLT] As he was approaching Damascus on this mission, a light from heaven suddenly shone down around him. He fell to the ground and heard a voice saying to him, "Saul! Saul! Why are you persecuting me?"
God doesn't FORCE people to love Him, God ENABLES people to love Him ...
And I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart. [Ezekiel 36:26 NLT]
The BIG question is ... ALL or SOME: you and I disagree on the answer.
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for the record, the verse is not explicit.)
The above answer for me is SOME.
All are given that small amount of grace - which is why some refuse to accept salvation.
but only some will come to salvation, to those God gives a new heart...
BUT, sometimes this new heart works immediately...and sometimes it takes months or even years to fully understand serving God. Sanctification is ongoing and lasts a lifetime.
I believe the reformed understand this to mean that God will, by predestination, give a new heart.
The problem, for me and other Christians, is this idea of predestinating.
The WCF states that God ordained whatever comes to pass.
Chapter III, 1
(He, however, is not responsible for or is the author of sin - how can this be if He ordained WHATEVER COMES TO PASS).
The above is confirmed in
III, 2 and 3 and 4 (in modern English - I also have the original)
1. From before the beginning of time, God has decided and put into place everything that happens. He makes these decisions freely by His wise and holy will. Nothing He’s put into place can change.
Still, He orders everything in such a way that He’s not the author of sin. And He doesn’t force us to do things against our will. He is the root cause of everything, but this doesn’t mean secondary causes are not involved – in fact, God is the reason other causes exist.
2. God knows everything that can happen based on any conditions, but He doesn’t decide things or put them in place by looking into the future and seeing what’s going to happen.
3. To show His glory, God has ordered events so that some people and some angels are destined to eternal life, and others to eternal death.
4. He has counted and chosen a certain number of people and angels for each destiny. This number can’t be increased or decreased.
5 and 6 are also interesting, but I have to stop somewhere.
It's also in the Institutes:
Book 3, Chapter 21, Paragraph 5
By predestination we mean the eternal decree of God, by which he determined with himself whatever he wished to happen with regard to every man. All are not created on equal terms, but some are preordained to eternal life, others to eternal damnation; and, accordingly, as each has been created for one or other of these ends, we say that he has been predestinated to life or to death.
The WCF states that God chooses in secret.
Instead the NT shows us HOW to become saved.