Paul1965
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I once worked for this rich old man i know for a day, he needed a hand to do some gardening around the place. I called him 'Sir' and he got all offended and straight away said you call me John, because he respected me as an equal.
Yup, I agree with the old man. We are all equals. At school I don't let my students call me "Kru Paul", "ajarn Paul" or "teacher Paul'. They are told on the first day of each school year "My name is Paul. Use it" It makes for a very relaxed learning atmosphere and the kids approach with questions a lot more once that barrier is removed.
Using someones name is not a sign of disrespect unless the intonation of your voice indicates it.
A lot problems arise in the world because people feel they are entitled to be treated as or that they feel they are in fact "Superior" to others and that's where the use of titles comes from.
That being said, in the services and service occupations, it has to be used for disciplinary reasons and lack of familiarity respectively.
The only exception for me will be when I face our Lord for judgement as He is the only one superior to me, yet He is not superior, HE IS SUPREME!
Getting back on track though, yes, it does make me feel even older hearing it. oh, wait a minute, I AM old. Darn it!
Sorry for the derailing.