Then clarify. Are you making the point that the way some pastor's wives dress really is okay, and so tattoos are okay, too; or that the church accepts something that is obviously wrong and, therefore, should (or has to) accept tattoos, also?
It's what those things signified, not the acts in and of themselves. This is what I've been trying to get across to you when I say it's not the content of the tattoo that makes it right or wrong,
but just the fact you're doing it.
Of course you'll still want to say the cutting of beards is that, too.
But that is no longer true for beards. But tattoos have not become as beards and matters of dress. They will one day now that many like yourself are bringing tattooing into the church. But that hasn't happened yet. As I said, despite many naive people indulging the practice,
tattooing is still known to be rooted in rebellion and sensuality and closely connected with a personal value system that exalts and approves of those things. I'm not saying everyone who has a tattoo has that value system. I'm saying that's what tattooing still communicates in our western culture, despite your insistence that it can, or does, communicate the opposite, or at least nothing either way.
Romans 14, and its treatise for Christian liberty, would seem to suggest that Christians under grace might well choose to use such a means to communicate faith.
(Though maybe you and I don't see dispensational issues in the same light.)
Blessings.
I'm not coming at this from a law perspective (though the law is very clear on the matter). So there's no need to visit the dispensational issue about the requirements of the law.
I don't know how you get out of Romans 14 that we can adopt known pagan practices, known to be utterly and undeniably rooted in rebellion and sensuality in our western culture, to somehow communicate the gospel. I get how you can think it's okay for you to do for yourself...covered up and out of sight so as not to cause someone else to violate their own conscience about the matter. That I see in Romans 14. I do not see an endorsement for using known pagan practices and worldly values to further the gospel.
edit: Romans 14 is actually speaking of
suppressing known pagan practices in order to further the work of Christ. It is a chapter about forfeiting one's legitimate freedoms for the sake of Christ, not indulging them for the sake of Christ.