Jude 1:20: "But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost," This verse connects speaking in tongues with prayer, indicating that it can be used as a means of communication with God. Specifically says Tongues is a prayer language.
I understand that you think "praying in the Holy Ghost" is the equivalent of "speaking in Tongues." But in my opinion, this is not the case, since "prayer in the Spirit" is never identified exclusively as Tongues-speaking. A person may very well speak in Tongues and be "praying in the Spirit." But all those who pray to God are, in reality, "praying in the Spirit."
It is clearly an Interpretive Fallacy to call "Prayer in the Spirit" "Tongues." To insist that the term "Prayer in the Spirit" or "Groaning" must refer to Tongues requires a leap ahead of what the Scriptures are explicitly saying. Nowhere in the Scriptures are we specifically told that either "Prayer in the Spirit" or "Groaning" is always the equivalent of "Speaking in Tongues!"
This is, in my opinion, Pentecostal Doctrine speaking, and not Scriptural Doctrine speaking. But the reader will have to decide for himself what the actual intention of the Scripture author is. Is there evidence that "Prayer in the Spirit" or "Groaning" can meaning something other than "Tongues?" If so, then it would be wrong, in my view, to draw the conclusion that these terms must refer to "Tongues!"
Matt 26.41 “Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”
Here you can see that "Prayer in the Spirit" is the effort to overcome, through God's help, the weakness of the flesh. It involves specific prayers of understanding, and not just "Speaking in Tongues!" It is "watching" and recognizing certain things, and not just blind prayer.
Acts 4.31 After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly.
To "speak the word of God boldly" is not to "Speak in Tongues!" And yet they prayed and were filled with the Spirit.
1 Cor 14.14 For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my mind is unfruitful. 15 So what shall I do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my understanding.
Paul here is specifically calling Christians to pray in a spiritual way, just like Tongues, but specifically "with understanding."
Eph 6.18 And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.
Would you suggest that Paul wanted his friends and brothers to pray in the Spirit in Tongues here when he is asking them to specifically "pray for all the Lord's people?"
Col 1.9 For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives.
It seems that we may too quickly read into "Prayer in the Spirit" the "Speaking in Tongues" when in reality, Paul is simply calling upon God's People to pray together with the Holy Spirit, whether in Tongues or with understanding, specifically asking them to pray with understanding for specific things?
Here, Paul is asking them to actually pray *through understanding!* And since we are weak in the flesh, we groan awkwardly for the help of the Spirit not just through Tongues but also through the understanding "that the Spirit gives!"
1 Corinthians 14:2: "For he ("as many as the Lord our God shall call. "(Acts 2:39) that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not to men, but to God: for no man understandeth him; but in his spirit he speaketh mysteries." This verse explicitly states that speaking in tongues is primarily a communication (prayer) with God.
I have not questioned whether Tongues is a form of "Prayer in the Spirit." What I'm disputing is that "Prayer in the Spirit" always refers to "Tongues," when the context does not specifically call for it.
In 1 Cor 14.2, the context is clearly "Tongues," and we would expect that "Tongues-Speaking" is a form of "Prayer in the Spirit," every much as "Prayer with Understanding" is, as well. And Paul goes on in this chapter to describe that "Prayer in the Spirit" would include "Prayer with Understanding" as much as "Tongues-Speaking!" (1 Cor 14.15)
Now just hypothetical here, if the whole world desired with all their heart the gift of Tongues, Scripture explicitly states that God will not withhold "no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly."(Psalm 84:11)
It could not be defined as "good" if God the Holy Spirit did not want me, specifically, to be an apostle or a Speaker in Tongues! It may be a good gift for those to whom it is given. But it would not be "good" for someone to have it to whom it does not belong!
Psalm 37:3, "Trust in the LORD, and do good; dwell in the land, and feed on his truth. Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart."
Our desire should not be just for "good things," such as "good health." We should rather desire what God Himself desires for us. As Jesus prayed, "Not my will by thine be done." To have a heart after God is to desire what He wants us to have--not just things that are "good" for others.
John 14:13, "And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son."
This is one of the most misunderstood passages in Scriptures. If we were guaranteed to receive anything we ask for, Christians would own the world! But not all Christians seek "the Kingdom of God 1st," when they ask for things! ;)
The context for Jesus' statement assumes that his listeners understand the priorities of God's Kingdom, and that there is a specific goal to pray for. In the context of God's historic plan to fulfill the Abrahamic Promise and the Great Commission we can look back and see that Jesus assumed his Disciples would pray for things that lead to their fulfillment--not things to satisfy their personal "wish list."
Anything you ask for, with respect to fulfilling God's mission for you, will be provided for you. This is what Jesus meant, in the broader context. Otherwise, all that he taught outside of this would have to be ignored.
If we ask for those things which are good for the body and soul and possibly for the saving of a soul God will not withhold.
Plus Paul said I wish you ALL spoke in Tongues and He also said I speak in tongues more than you all.
This is how I see it.
Yea, I know. I've been in Pentecostal churches for 50 + years. You have no idea how many times I've "groaned" in hearing these things, which can be and are easily twisted to try to manipulate God to do what we think is "good" for Him to do for us. But I appreciate you being willing to explain your position.
My position is that we are weak in our flesh and groan. But the Spirit helps us, both to pray in Tongues when we have that gift and to pray with understanding when certain things are specifically to be prayed for. This is how I understand the Scriptures.