You don't see anyone being destroyed because it happens to them at their death. If you're not baptized you're not saved and if you're not saved you're lost and doomed to hell.Don't see anybody being destroyed that was poured instead of dipped.
Man deserves hell, but has given you a way out.
Maybe we should be immersed, but I think I said that He's a very understanding God.
Perhaps you don't agree.
Perhaps you're a full-fledged Pharisee.
And baptism is not an option. So it's not a matter "perhaps", but the choice is yours to make: have water poured on you or be baptized. Being poured on gets you eternal damnation, being baptized places you in the body of Christ.
And no, I'm not a Pharisee, but rather just someone that tries to adhere to the strict word of God. God makes no exceptions and is intolerant of those that disobey. A cursory reading of the OT will clearly point that out.