Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:
9 Not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing.
10 For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile:
11 Let him eschew evil, and do good; let him seek peace, and ensue it.
12 For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is against them that do evil.
13 And who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of that which is good?
14 But and if ye suffer for righteousness' sake, happy are ye: and be not afraid of their terror, neither be troubled;
15 But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:
16 Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation in Christ.
17 For it is better, if the will of God be so, that ye suffer for well doing, than for evil doing.
18 For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God,being put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit:
19 By which also he went and preached unto the spirits in prison;
20 Which sometime were disobedient, when once the longsuffering of God waited in the days of Noah, while the ark was a preparing, wherein few, that is, eight souls were saved by water.
21 The like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now save us (not the putting away of the filth of the flesh, but the answer of a good conscience toward God,) by the resurrection of Jesus Christ:
22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him.
So I believe verse 18 holds the answer...
You...are on right path for sure..
And here is a corresponding passage:
Romans 8:13
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For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live."
SO first we see .....Christ was quickened
and through that quickening Spirit He saved those through the Preached Word.
(Thinking..wonders if word can be adequate in falling on dead ears-for why did the sleep not hear/heed..they never looked to God?)
Then we see the answer of a clear conscience before God...>must be Life.
Another words the dead cannot save the dead. And here is an interesting passage in support of that: Mark 12:27
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He is not the God of the dead, but the God of the living: ye therefore do greatly err."
Putting this together it make me think turning to God with the right heart is part of the beginning. Maybe equated with imputed righteousness.
But is God in you quickening, no, but His Spirit can be quickening in you. WHICH GIVES LIFE....or is eternal in quality.
So the Baptism that saves us now is Christ's quickening Spirit....
While one cannot get there without dying to the flesh....the cleansing of the Conscience is to live by the Spirit.
For it is the Spirit that gives Life the Flesh profits nothing.
How much more will we be saved by His Life. THEREFORE we see the Holyghost falls on everyone who had receive the Spirit(believed)
Scripture references: Romans 5:10
For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more,
being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.
John 6:63
It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you,
they are spirit, and
they are life.
Amazing...Our Baptism is His Life...Confirmed by the Holy Ghost.
One thing I have to mention is....
"God's" wrath...seem to be added...seems one is saved from man's wrath in that reference.
Which makes sense even in the context of 1 Perter 3....
Sounds like Your life for God's life
And to continue to have Life you must live in terms of Spirit/Life....Which is our Baptism.
Another words life breeds Life....
So Nic if you want to see the kindom you must be quickened by the Spirit.
To be born of God through the quickening word of God.
1 Timothy 3:16
"16 And without controversy great is the mystery of godliness: God was manifest in the flesh, justified in the Spirit, seen of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on in the world, received up into glory."
So to Sum up my take on it...
The Baptism that saves us now is through God's quickening Spirit..
So...if we already died with Him
Then......you get the first part of this passage:
But if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:7-9
Interesting is recall God wants to preserve the whole body, soul, and Spirit.
So what it seems we have here is..
Getting the body in alignment with the Spirit within.
So while the heart is being transformed...it's taking time for the body to follow..Because out of habit it seems to move first.
So why does our conscience act up...because our body has not been subjected totally to the Spirit of our mind.
But I believe when they are at times in alignment we Have the Baptism that removes the guilty conscience....which is our pledge to God for a clear conscience, His quickening Eternal Spirit....
These are just my thoughts...hope I did not ramble my mouth too long...