Let's take a step back.
Most versions say born again. However, most versions also have a footnote that says born from above.
Truth is found in scripture.
JLB
While I agree, there is truth and then there is the whole truth.
We like to talk about the context within the scriptures. I knew a guy back in college that just for kicks, strung together a multitude of biblical passages that supported our salvation came through Satan. You see, and I know you agree that context is important.
When we read scripture, the context is larger than the written text. If we keep biblical truth isolated to simply the text, then we willfully encourage ignorance of the text. Let me explain.
Scripture says that Jews seek signs and gentiles seek knowledge. This truth shows us that both societies have a cultural lens in which they view the world around them. The book of Matthew was written to Jews within Jerusalem while Luke wrote to both Gentiles and Hellenistic Jews who had a different lens than the audience in Matthew's gospel.
A gentile isn't doing to understand Matthews Gospel like a Jew would because they have different cultural lenses.
Fast forward 2,000 years and our American culture are far removed from Jewish or Greek and Roman culture. As such, if we confine the scripture to our modern day culture, we will read our own bias into the text completely void of what the original audience would have heard.
I touched on this earlier, and it was brought to my attention that my remark was pointed at you and I had violated our TOS. It wasn't directed at you. I was simply trying to explain that understanding the culture is as important as the text. Both parts comprise the whole truth.
My point to you about Hillel isn't about pushing Jewish thought, but rather seeking the whole truth. While you and others want to argue doctrines, I'm searching for the rest of the story.
In short, on the day of judgment, I don't want to ask Nicodemus for forgiveness because I put words into his mouth without first trying to understand how he heard the words of Jesus. Because of Nicodemus was heavily influenced by Hillel, i can get better sense on what he heard instead of imposing my 21st century cultural lense onto him. For me, i think that's fair.