I know one thing, the Pharisees were experts at judging others like you just judged me.
They say 'as a last resort, start making personal attacks.
Try this one then...
Galatians 3:10 (KJV) For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse: for it is written, Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them.
Who is avoiding His law when as regenerate in Christ, His laws are written in my new nature.
Like I say you don't begin to know me.
48 years a Christian after a life of drugs, sexual perversion, the occult, gambling etc., where I couldn't hold a conversation for more than 20 seconds before my mind wandered, or a job for two weeks before my feet wandered.
Since then, I have been faithful to my wife for 36 years and am retired from my job after 28 years.
Like I said, you don't know me and are full of assumptions. Maturity is something the Lord would like us all to develop.
And so, I am personally attacking someone accusing me of being a Pharisee for doing the law righteously with a pure heart, by pointing out how they are accusing the righteous of being Pharisitically religious.
Right. And you call yourself a grown up? Stop acting like a child.
I am more than glad your christian religion as made you a better man and husband, as is your wife, children, and neighbors.
I have a good muslim neighbor just like you, and I love him as a neighbor just like you. He just doesn't name the name of Christ, which is better than good sinners like you doing so.
By your own teaching, the plain difference between you and me is that I am not a recovered alcoholic, but rather a saint in Christ Jesus, delivered from all manner of sinning, including being a drunkard.
And so now, I exhort you to purify your heart by the Spirit of Christ, and stop teaching christian religion for good sinners.
Giving sinners cover for sinning by grace is a lie: your doctrine counts the blood of the Lamb as no better than that of a bull or goat.
It makes you a great person in this life, like any good Jew, but a lousy saint in Christ Jesus: if your heart were pure of unrighteousness, you would not be teaching sinning while saved by grace.
God does not judge us for being successful good neighbors and faithful in marriage, but for being spiritually unclean within our souls:
Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day that thou wast created, till iniquity was found in thee. (Ezek 28)
So long as we are sinning within our hearts, then none of our good works will cover us in the judgment.
The problem is certainly not you being a good sinning christian, but that you teach being an unclean good christian to others.
You need to go on to perfection in Christ within your heart and soul, and stop preaching being a good sinner for Christ.
Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. (2 Cor 7)
Or at least stop condemning the purified saints, because you are convicted of your spiritual errors.
Scripture does not say Cain was a drunken drug addict before arguing with and killing righteous Abel.
Once you begin purifying your heart of all lust, and casting down every unrighteous thought unto the obedience of Christ, then come and declare to me the power of becoming a son of God.
Until then, you can take your advocacy for being a saved sinner elsewhere. There are plenty of good and successful family men in the world, but the world needs more purified saints walking with Jesus step by step and hand in hand, as well as preaching the righteous doctrine of Christ.
I do not dishonor your recovered religious lifestyle, but only reject your teaching Christ as a just another religion for a recovered lifestyle.