Sometimes disobedient
Titus 3:3
For
we ourselves also were sometimes foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving divers lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another.
Even though the Elect by Nature were disobedient, yet even then, Paul never classified them and neither were they ever " The children of disobedience" as per
Eph 2:2
2 Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in
the children of disobedience:
In the greek the children of disobedience reads "toiv uioiv thv apeiqeiav;:
The definite article makes it clear that these are a definite group of people, they are the vessels of wrath Paul writes on in
Rom 9:22. In other words, the children of disobedience will always be the children of disobedience !
The Elect, even though by Nature are children of wrath as others, and walk according to the prince of the power of the air, yet they have already been accepted or Highly Favored in the Beloved
Eph 1:6
6 To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein
he hath made us accepted in the beloved.
Yes, they have that status before God, by Grace, prior to their actual quickening in the Time state
Eph 2:5
Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved )
The difference, the Elect, because of Christ's obedience, they shall be made Righteous !
Rom 5:19 and this is done by their New Birth by the Spirit, which causes their obedience to the Truth
1 Pet 1:2
2 Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father,
through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied.
2 Thess 2:13
13 But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation
through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth:
Belief of the Truth and obedience are the same !