I would never say that you are a nobody.
And yet, you said "who are you"? The nature of your response shouts that I'm a nobody to you, as if that justifies you not paying any attention to what I have to say.
But in the area of praying in tongues, the personal prayer room is a sacred place where God is the only listener. No one else has the right to intrude.
If you were confessing sin, then I might agree. Since Jesus said "go into your closet and pray to your Father in secret," I might agree, except He was talking about religious pride, not about the content of the prayer. If you really want to pray in secret, then why don't you just pray silently, since verbalizing anything (including 'tongues') will cause anyone to hear who is near enough to the door. And if P/Cs want to obey this command of Christ, then why do they pray in their gibberish in church, as they commonly do?
But if God let the apostles hear those who spoke in Biblical tongues in Acts, in order to confirm that the gentiles had received the Holy Spirit, then why can't your activity be evaluated by a 3rd party to verify the same thing? Like I said before, I get the idea you don't want your 'tongue' evaluated, because you intuitively know that it's just gibberish and not a real language.
But the public use of tongues and interpretation is open to having the interpretation judged, in the same way that when a person prophesies, the others judge the prophecy - but not by their religious or theological bias, but by the Word of God.
In order for there to be an interpretation of a miraculous tongue, that tongue has to carry an intelligible message, which modern P/C tongues don't. So 'interpretations' of those tongues are made up by those giving it, out of their imagination. This makes modern P/C tongues activity and all that surrounds it nothing more than a pretentious attempt at copying what the apostles did in Acts.
Paul did not comment on the nature of the tongues spoken by the Corinthians. His view of the tongues was that the people were "giving thanks well enough", so he didn't have any problem with tongues speaking per se. It is the speaking of tongues without interpretation that concerned him. He said that it is much better in public meetings that people spoke in ways that others understood them rather than speaking like "Barbarians", not being understood by anyone. His view was that if there were no interpreters in the meeting it is much better to keep the tongues speaking to oneself and to God. At no stage did Paul ever say that the tongues spoken were of the flesh or the devil. If he did, he would have counselled the forbidding of tongues, but he counselled the opposite.
He was talking about Biblical tongues, which are real languages that carry intelligible messages. He did not need to comment on the nature of the tongues spoken, because his assumption is that they were speaking Biblical tongues, not gibberish that is commonly done by P/Cs today.
The trouble with many churches that oppose tongues is that they blatantly disobey Paul in that they actually forbid the speaking of tongues in their churches and kick people out who do speak in tongues. In these churches they don't even prophesy, which is another form of disobedience to what Paul taught. One has to wonder whether these churches actually believe what Paul taught at all!
I disagree with you on this matter. If anyone has been kicked out of church, it is because they blatantly disobey the scripture by:
1. speaking out their gibberish without permission and out of order
2. have no interpreter, and even if they do, it's a conspiracy to disrespect the authority and order of the church
3. continue to assert their belief that their gibberish is biblical when it's not
or, there are other possible reasons.
IMO modern P/C tongues is not biblical, and is caused by a fleshly motive.
The subject of prophecy is a side issue and off topic. But since you mentioned it, prophecy is both foretelling and forthtelling what God has spoken. I don't know what churches you're talking about, but the ones I know of they do much forthtelling. But in my 20 years experience of P/C circles, there was much foretelling that didn't come true, and that means that prophets among the P/Cs are a dime a dozen. Just because someone can 'prophesy' to someone else and make them feel good in the moment by telling them what they want to hear, doesn't mean it's from God. Psychics and mediums can do that.
It appears to me that you are grasping at straws, claiming that the churches are in a "form of disobedience." Yet the P/Cs commonly disobey scripture in the things I mentioned. And as I've said before, if anyone speaks gibberish that is a natural ability, and claims that it's a gift of the Holy Spirit, such a person is taking the name of the Lord in vain (even if they don't know they are doing it) - would you agree with this statement?
Therefore, IMO the P/Cs have a tall order to prove that what they are doing is really miraculous. Until that happens, there will always remain a rift in the churches, because people with wisdom and Biblical knowledge can see right through it.