Dave, yes people abuse the gifts and speak in gibberish. They abuse all the gifts and wear them as badges. So why not throw them all out?
I have other questions, and I might say reading your posts brings up more questions than answers, to wit:
How do you know exactly what Paul meant when he said "I will pray with my spirit.."?
How do you know exactly what "groanings which cannot be uttered" is or sounds like?
How do you know that God doesn't use other than a human-invented language? In fact why should he use a language anyone knows?
What are the tongues of angels then?
What difference does it make if I spoke in a language I don't understand and can't tell you what human language it is, as long as God heard and responded, and gave it to me?
I don't think you answered the question, did I ask for a fish and get a stone?
Maybe the devil has perverted the gift. Why is that a reason to throw it out? Why would he not pervert all the gifts?
I suggest that your beliefs prevent you from answering these and you seem unwilling to admit there may be things in heaven and earth not comprehended by your Christianity.
Words of wisdom, knowledge, miracles, discerning of spirits-are they not needed either? Using yours and others logic here, haven't we all advanced beyond the need for them?
I think folks would be interested in your individual answers to these questions. Paul agrees with some of what you say, except where you assume he wanted the gift left out of the church just because it is abused. I have concluded we make too much of a minor gift, on both sides, and we really have no reason to be divided about it.
Rad